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Who are you?



Who are you without a man?




  • Are you not the same woman, that still has a life to live with or without a man?


  • Are you not the same woman, who still has so much love inside of you to give to others, with or without a man?


  • Are you not the same woman, who still has a purpose, with or without a man?


  • Are you not the same woman, who still has a destiny to get to, with or without a man?


  • Are you not the same woman, who still has goals to reach, with or without a man?


  • Are you not the same woman, who still has dreams of a better life, with or without a man?


  • Are you not the same woman, that still has a child and/or children to take care of, with or without a man?


  • Are you not the same woman, who still loves you some Jesus, with or without a man?


  • Are you not the same woman, who still tries to save the people that she loves, no matter how much you telling them the truth upsets them, with or without a man?


  • Are you not the same woman, who still doesn’t want to see the truth about someone because it will hurt too bad, with or without a man?


  • Are you not the same woman, who prides yourself on being strong through Jesus Christ but at the same time you wish that you had a man’s strong chest to lay your head-on, so that you could feel loved, safe, and protected, with or without a man?


  • Are you not the same woman, that has healthy sexual desires but continues to choose to remain celibate because you respect Jesus and yourself too much, now, with or without a man?


  • Are you not the same woman, that cries when someone else is crying, with or without a man?


  • Are you not the same woman, that has so much passion inside of you, but some people see it as aggression, with or without a man?


  • Are you not the same woman, that feels so deeply but some people see it as weakness and/or anger, with or without a man?


  • Are you not the same woman, that hollers and yells at the people that you love but it’s because you love them so much, even though it’s not healthy for you or them, with or without a man?


  • Are you not the same woman, that gets so moody and irritable when it’s that time of the month, that it even makes you mad at yourself because of the way you behave sometimes, with or without a man?


  • Are you not the same woman, that wishes, wants, and deeply desires to be able to trust that man, that you love so much but wisdom tells you that you can not, no matter how much you try to deny it, with or without a man?


  • Are you not the same woman, that loves that man with all your heart and you don’t want to leave but you know that you have to leave and it’s slowly killing you inside but you know that you will so that you can save yourself, with or without a man?


  • Are you not the same woman, that doesn’t want to break your family up but that overwhelming desire that you have to break the cycle of abuse in your family’s generation is stronger than your fear of being alone and a single mother, with or without a man?


  • Are you not that same woman, that loves her mother so much but you have to make yourself stop chasing her for love and time because the constant rejection is causing you unnecessary heartache and pain, with or without a man?


  • Are you not the same woman, that has been molested and/or raped, sexually validated many other times but you are fighting hard to be able to believe in love and in a man again because how can you not, Jesus was a man and you know how much he loves you, with or without a man?


  • Are you not that same woman, that has been continuously cheated on in your past but you have chosen to (Steal Your Power Back Jesus’s Way) and still believe that your faithful husband is out there longing for you, the way that you are longing for him, with or without a man?


  • Are you not that same woman, that is on a mission to continue to learn how to love yourself the way that you know that Jesus loves you and you will learn how to love yourself the way you wish others would, no matter how hard it gets, with or without a man?


  • Are you not that same woman, that will continue to tell yourself the truth about facts and reality, no matter how ugly it is and no matter how much you want to live in denial just because it feels safer too, with or without a man?


  • Are you not that same woman, that will fulfill your God-given purpose and destiny in this life, no matter how much your truth upsets yourself and others, with or without a man?


So, you see…

You are a whole, complete person, with or without a man!


You have just been brainwashed from the time you were a child with all of the cartoons and movies that were about falling in love. It has programmed you to believe that having a man in your life was the only thing that was important.







I’ve been sent to tell you and to remind you that...



Yes, you are that woman!


Yes, you are still that woman, if you’re single!


Yes, you are still valuable and worthy, if you’re single!


Yes, you still have a purpose, if you’re single!


Yes, you still have a life to live, if you’re single!


Yes, you still can have love in your life, if you’re single!


Yes, you are still a desirable woman, if you’re single!