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The Sex Game!




Why are you (trying) to play the sex game?

Yes, I said (trying) because he’s not the one crying himself to sleep at night. He's not the one having to numb himself with alcohol, food, and/or drugs just to try to kill his thoughts and conscience so that he can sleep at night, like you are having to do!


The last time that I checked, you are not a man.


Men are not our competition, how can they be? They are not a woman!


We are (not) equals! This devilish world has lied to you, to me, to all of us!


  • Do you think like a man, No!

  • Do you look like a man, No!

  • Do you sound like a man, No!

  • Do you have strength like a man, No!

  • Do you have a penis like a man, No!


Then how can a man be your equal?


Men can’t get pregnant but you can! We are, once again (not) equals! We are both through Jesus Christ - God's children but he made us different for a reason.


Most men, don’t cry themselves to sleep at night, but you do!


Most men, don’t destroy their future's running behind someone for time and love, but you do!


Most men, think with their head or let's say unfortunately, some think with (both their heads) if you know what I mean but you think with your fear, loneliness, and false hope.

  • You keep playing the sex game, which is why you have different baby daddies!


  • You keep playing the sex game, which is why you look like you have aged 5 years!


  • You keep playing the sex game, which is why you have put on all that weight!


  • You keep playing the sex game, which is why you have given up on your goals!


  • You keep playing the sex game, which is why you have had STDs!


  • You keep playing the sex game, which is why everyone talks and gossips about you behind your back and you act like it doesn’t bother you but behind closed doors, your crying about it!


  • You keep playing the sex game, thinking that if you are a pro at sex, then you can keep him but good sex does not make a man respect you enough to call you wifey and mother to his children!


  • You keep playing the sex game, which is why you are on the road heading towards a Full-blown alcohol and/or drug addiction because you keep doing things your way, instead of Jesus's way!


  • You keep playing the sex game, which is why you have no peace because no matter how much you have tried to, you cant keep playing the sex game and have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ all at the same time. So now, that Man has become your God because you chose that man over your relationship with Jesus!


  • You keep playing the sex game, while sex has been lying to you!


Does your sex come with a glass of morals and values?


Does your sex come with an appetizer of integrity and class?


Does your sex come with a side dish of self-respect?


Does your sex come with a full course meal of mother and wifey material?


No, it doesn’t!


That is not your (so called) intoxicating, powerful performance of sex that has tried to convince you, that good sex will keep a man committed and loyal; talking to you.

It's actually been your unhealthy, toxic, lying, groomed, brainwashed pride and ego talking to you!


Somewhere, without maybe you realizing it, deep within your unaware sub-conscience...


  • You believed that garbage (just like I once did) about the loyal, ride and die chick. That players and pimps came up with to control women’s minds and emotions but all it does is steal our youth from us and when they have used and abused us to the point that there is nothing left, they will then replace us with a younger version.


  • You believed the hype that the world sold you, that your power was between your legs!


  • You believed the lies that the music and TV screen told you!


  • You believed the devilish men that saw through your loud mouth because game players know that (the louder you are the more broken you are).


  • You believed the lies that the fake godly and the ungodly men told you because they could smell the neediness and desperation that leaked through your pores which came from your trauma, scars and wounds. They preyed on your insecurities and decided to use them against you so that they could use your vagina like their own personal garbage can!


Why are you trying to one-up a man all the time?


Why, are you trying to beat him at his own game?


Who told you to play with those demonic spirits that are working within him that he now has possibly passed on to you, through sexual soul ties.


But, you want to play the sex game!

You have no idea what you are playing with.

You have no idea what you have gotten yourself into!



You want - what you want - when you want it - and how you want it, and you call it Love, don’t you!

Sometimes you will hear women say, I'm grown!


Ok then, be grown, my bad!

You know it all right, go ahead with your bad self and get what you (think) you want. But when your unhealthy choices starts to eat away at your soul.


When the sneaky darkness of evil starts to try to steal away every ounce of any self-respect, confidence, love, purpose, and dreams that you have left.